Decision

[Exited Xango but still maintains my outlook in life here]

After asking tons of questions about MLM and Xango in particular, I've finally decided to join Xango and experience doing MLM. Glad to know Edmund, my sponsor, who has took the patience to answer all my doubts and guiding me.

I've resisted in going into a MLM when I was first introduced to it by my friend in NTU because at that time, I'm still studying and do not have a stable income to invest in it. The need to fork out $15000 to have a better start in that MLM company scared me off. Now that I've an income, I can plan where to invest my money in. To get started in Xango, I just have to fork out few hundred dollars, which is a very low start-up cost. Just like any other investments, we have to open up our eyes and ears to see and hear, in order for us to choose the right MLM company, which will bring us more benefits than harm. Xango has a completely unique compensation plan, which I'm very impressed with it. It also has an online marketing system, which saves me a lot of time.

There is a saying, "Money don't fall from sky." I agree with this. We have to invest some time and effort in everything that we started out to do before we can savour the fruits of our labour. Even if money do fall from sky, we also have to stretch out and grab it because I believe others will also be eyeing on it. Am I right to say this?

Another decision I've been trying to make is whether I should create another blog for Xango alone because this blog has been my private blog. Only one friend knows the existence of this blog. I'm going to keep it private because I have a website for building business now.

To know more about Xango, their compensation plan or you have any queries, leave a comment with your contact here and I will get back to you.

Open up your mind. That's when you can see the opportunities around you. Opening up your mind doesn't mean you have to accept all the things people said. It means allowing the information in so that you can analyse it yourself and make the right decision that would lead you to the results you want.

Dongguan, China

Gained 3kg during my 2 weeks work trip to Dongguan, China, in Nov. I have shed all that weight since returning back home. Now going back again this coming Sun for 1 week. Think this time I will gain 1.5kg. Haha.. Eating all the good food there. Love to gain more weight!

Matchmaker cum Counsellor in the making

Recently, I find myself counselling some of my friends in their studies, jobs and all kinds of relationships. It comes to me very naturally in this area. At the same time, I'm also counselling myself. Maybe I should become a counsellor or publish a book for the soul. LoL.. As I counselled one of my friend, he asked me what criterias I'm looking for in a guy to be my potential husband.

Here's what I told him:
1) ultra positive
2) humourous (nt those flirting types)
3) humble
4) enjoy the simple pleasures in life
5) supportive in every ways
6) not manipulative
7) respect and trust others who are worthy
8) embrace life itself

There may be more to come, which I have not yet discover myself.

Happiness

"Happiness is something that you have to strive for. You can't sit and wait for that special someone to come into your life. Even if you have gone through a failed relationship, move on. Failing once doesn't mean you fail forever."

After the first trauma, it is really hard to find myself and the courage to move on. I'm still trying to muster that courage to face people. A lot of "What ifs" arises whenever someone say they like me. Running away is the only path for me to take, but I can't run forever. It creates misunderstandings and I've become a heartless person. So be it.